February 14th 2019

February 14th 2019

Happy Valentines day. What better day to pick up then where I left off on all your potential suitors for a relationship with your target.

I hope it got you thinking in a new way about life and how you spend your time.

Many of my clients talk to me about passion. They’ll say, yeah that list is great, but I don’t have a passion. Nothing drives me or I am passionate about.

I want to address this issue of “passion”. This idea that something outside of you will drive you is a big fat lie and myth. Nothing is going to come knocking on your door and drag you out of your funk and make be so powerful to make you do it. This is often the thinking error that keeps people trapped in a boring and unfulfilling life. It is also why they look to people or relationships to fill them. They want the other person to be the energy, the passion so-to-speak, to drive them. This is a big error in thinking.

Passion comes after the doing. You will have to be your own little enginee. You will have to find ways to motivate yourself. I hope wanting a better, more meaningful and rich life devoid of black emptiness is motivation enough.

If you are looking outside for something to drive you, you’ll need to address this ASAP. As adults, no is going to chase us or kick our butts to do something. If you got a relationship for this, they’ll get tired of it eventually and your sex life will die. This is because it becomes more parental. Now you need to figure out how to do it

Passion is a by product of doing something you figure out you love. It does not precede an activity.

So I hope this helps you. So, you will need to start experimenting with activities and see what you can develop. Just like you do with dating. You will be dating activities. Some will work out and most won’t. but you need to do it.

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